I haven't really talked about what I have learned in marriage yet and I think it is a good time to do so. I believe that a lot of people (and yes, even myself sometimes) go into marriage and think that they are going to be happy no matter what. That happiness is just going to fall into our laps! But what I have learned is that you have to work together in marriage to be happy. Now true that you
are suppose to be happy with the spouse that you have, but to be truly happy requires a lot of work. I don't believe that God created marriage to be easy and that we have to work as husbands and wives to work out all the problems in marriage. Over the years there has been a steady decline in divorces in the United States, but there has also been a steady increase of divorces among the Christian community. This shows me that even Christians are unwilling to work hard and be happy in their marriages. Let us all remember to work hard to make our marriages happy, last a very long time, and to be what God wants them to be.



